7. Puppy vs Rescue Dog: The Truth Nobody's Telling You

"I don't want a rescue because I don't know what behavioural issues it has."

We hear this constantly. And it's based on a massive misconception about puppies.

The Myth That Puppies Are "Safer"

Here's what most people believe: get a puppy from a breeder, raise it properly, avoid behavioural issues. Get a rescue, inherit someone else's problems.

Here's the reality: most dogs we work with for behaviour problems were purchased as puppies, not adopted as rescues.

Why? Because most people have no idea how to raise a puppy properly.

They skip socialisation. They don't establish boundaries. They think "he'll grow out of it." They wait until problems are severe before getting help.

Ironically, people who adopt rescues often end up with better-behaved dogs. Because they know they need to be on top of training from day one.

The Real Pros And Cons

Puppy from a breeder:

You know the background and genetics. You can meet parents and see temperament. Health testing and guarantees are available. You get breeder support throughout the dog's life. You can choose specific breed characteristics. Socialisation is often already started.

But: higher cost (£2,000-£5,000+). Waiting lists can be months or years. You need to verify the breeder is responsible. You're contributing to breeding whilst rescues exist. There's still no guarantee of a perfect dog.

Rescue dog:

You're saving a life. Lower cost (£200-£500). Often includes vaccinations and desexing. Support available from rescue organisations. Mixed breeds can be healthier. Variety of ages available.

But: sometimes unknown background. May have behavioural challenges. Fewer young puppies available. May have health unknowns. Adoption process can be lengthy. Less predictable as adults.

Struggling to decide between puppy and rescue? Join our weekly Q&As where you can talk through your specific situation. Our community has owners of both puppies and rescues who can share real experiences beyond the romanticised versions.

Red Flags And Green Flags

Breeder red flags: Won't let you visit. Multiple breeds available. No health testing. Won't provide references. Pushy sales tactics. Meet in car parks. Puppies always available.

Breeder green flags: Welcome home visits. Health test parents. Offer lifetime support. Provide contract with health guarantee. Limit breeding of each dog. Involved in breed community. Ask you lots of questions.

Rescue red flags: Won't provide history. No health check done. No home visit. Won't take dog back if needed. Pushy adoption process.

Rescue green flags: Thorough application process. Conduct home visits. Provide veterinary care. Will take dog back if it's not working. Offer ongoing support. Do behavioural assessments. Honest about challenges.

The Question You Should Actually Be Asking

It's not "puppy or rescue?"

It's "am I prepared to put in the work either way?"

Because here's the truth: if you don't put in the effort, it doesn't matter if you have a puppy or a rescue. You're going to have problems.

An 8-week-old puppy needs socialisation before 16 weeks. Needs consistent toilet training. Needs boundaries and structure. Needs mental stimulation and appropriate exercise.

A 2-year-old rescue needs patience as they adjust. Needs consistent boundaries. Needs understanding if they have anxiety or fear. Needs proper training to build confidence.

Neither is easier. They're just different challenges.

What About Mixed Breeds And Doodles?

Most kennel clubs don't recognise mixed breeds. This means no accreditation for breeders of Groodles, Cavapoos, Labradoodles, or any other designer cross.

You're entering an unregulated market. Quality varies wildly. Prices are often inflated because these breeds are trendy.

There are lovely breeders of mixed breeds. There are also terrible ones making quick money.

Do your research thoroughly. Ask all the same questions you'd ask a purebreed breeder. Check references. Visit multiple times. Don't rush.

Get Ongoing Support For Your Puppy Journey

Whether you choose a puppy or a rescue, having the right support makes all the difference.

That's why we created our free Skool community - to give you continuous support every step of the way.

Inside the community, you'll get:

• Weekly live Q&A sessions where you can ask about YOUR specific decision between puppy and rescue
• Complete puppy courses covering both raising puppies and integrating rescues
• A supportive community of owners who've chosen both paths and can share honest experiences
• Breeder and rescue evaluation guides to help you spot red flags
• Troubleshooting help whether you're dealing with puppy challenges or rescue adjustment
• Updated resources including breeder questionnaires and rescue checklists

Best part? It's completely free. No subscription. No catch. Just dog owners helping dog owners.

Join The Toe Beans Co community today and get the ongoing support you need whether you choose a puppy or a rescue.