Separation anxiety at a glance

Separation anxiety

Your dog does not yet trust that things stay steady while you are gone. Trust is something you can deliberately build.

Book in home training

How long it takes

Four to eight weeks in an adult dog. Puppies often improve in one to two

Where you start

Micro absences under thirty seconds

How many repetitions

Twenty to thirty across a day works well on a day off

The most load bearing part

The return. Fix the homecoming before the departure

How fast to extend

By no more than half at a time. Five minutes becomes eight, then twelve

One, threshold mapping
Two, sub threshold rebuild
Three, duration and departure layering
Four, real world departures
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A man crouching in a studio while holding a Dalmatian puppy. The man is wearing a dark navy polo shirt and blue jeans, and the puppy is white with black spots.

Frequently Asked Questions

Common questions we get about our puppy program.

Common Issue - Separation Anxiety

How long does it take to fix separation anxiety?

Most puppies show clear improvement inside one to two weeks of steady work. An adult dog with a long running pattern usually needs four to eight weeks. The variable that matters most is the homecoming. Every excited greeting sets the work back, which is why most owners take longer than they need to.

My dog is fine at weekends but struggles with separation during the working week. Why?

It is almost always the length of the absence. A dog that copes with two hours has not yet built up to eight.

Fix it with short absences before and after work, stretched a little at a time, until your dog stays calm at each new length. Jumping straight from a weekend pattern to a full working day is what breaks it.

Should I get a second dog to keep my dog company?

It rarely fixes it, and it often doubles the problem. The distress comes from losing access to you rather than from being alone in general, so a second dog does not answer the question your dog is actually asking. You also risk the new dog learning the same pattern by watching.

How long can I leave my dog alone while we are working on this?

Only as long as they can currently manage calmly, which early on may be under a minute. Arrange a walker, a sitter or family cover for the gap between what your dog can handle and what your day requires. Repeatedly pushing past their threshold reinforces the anxiety rather than building tolerance.

Does a crate help with separation anxiety?

It can, provided the crate is already somewhere your dog chooses to go. Never introduce a crate as a response to the anxiety, and never use it as the place your dog gets sent when things go wrong. Once the crate is associated with being shut away, you have lost the safe space this work relies on.

My dog is fine overnight but panics when I leave in the morning.

That is common, and it points at the belief rather than at loneliness. Overnight you are present and your dog can account for you. In the morning you disappear and they cannot. Work the stage one cue drills hardest on your morning routine, since that is usually the most heavily rehearsed set of departure cues in the house.

How much does it cost?

There are four levels and the current prices are all on the puppy school booking page, along with exactly what each one includes.

The four weeks of class are identical at every level. What you are choosing between is how much one to one time you get in your own home, how long you keep the online course, and how directly you can reach us afterwards. Most families land on the second level, which is where a session at home and the full course access switch on.

Do you come to my home, and how far do you go?

Yes. On puppy school, home sessions start from the second level up. On the seventeen to thirty two week and thirty two weeks and over programs, a session at your address is included at every level. A trainer comes to your address and works on your setup, your routine and the behaviour that is actually happening where you live, which is almost never the same as what happens in a training room.

We cover Sydney within roughly a forty five minute drive of the Harbour Bridge. That takes in the eastern suburbs, inner west, lower and upper north shore, northern beaches and south Sydney. Only the group class brings you to a venue.

Can I talk to someone before I commit to anything?

Yes, and we would rather you did. The meet and greet is fifteen minutes, free, and there is nothing to sign at the end of it.

Bring the questions you feel silly asking. Most of what people are worried about at eight weeks is completely normal and takes about ninety seconds to answer, and knowing that before you spend anything is worth more to us than a booking made by someone who is not sure.

Can I just do the four weeks of class, without the rest?

Yes. The entry level is the four weeks of class with community support and Public-level Ask Luke. It does not include the online course, and plenty of people start there.

Worth knowing what you are trading off. Class is one hour a week in a room. Everything that actually goes wrong happens at your front door, in your hallway and on your street, and that is what the session at home is for. If budget is the reason, start where you can and step up later rather than not starting.

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