You're standing in someone's laundry with eight puppies climbing your shoelaces, and you have about twenty minutes to make a decision you'll live with for fourteen years. One of them has already worked out that you're the softest touch in the room. That's the one most people take home.
Almost everything written about how to choose a puppy leans on temperament testing, usually some version of the Volhard aptitude test from the 1970s, presented as though a seven week old's score predicts the adult dog. It doesn't, or at least not nearly as strongly as the writing implies. Luke Buchanan, Owner of The Toe Beans Co and Sydney's Puppy Trainer, has met a lot of bold seven week olds who turned into steady three year olds, and a lot of quiet ones who did not. What happens between eight and twenty four weeks moves the needle far more than where a puppy sat in the litter on the day you visited.
So the useful question isn't which puppy is best. It's which puppy fits your house, and what you're going to do with your first four months.
Why the boldest puppy is not the best puppy
The puppy that barges to the front of the pen is telling you about arousal and confidence in that moment, not about how easy they'll be to live with.
Bold puppies are genuinely lovely and they're also the ones who most often turn up in my sessions at eighteen weeks pulling their owner down a footpath. High confidence plus high arousal plus a first-time handler is a demanding combination. It isn't a bad dog. It's a dog with more engine than the owner budgeted for.
The one hiding at the back has the mirror problem. Some of those puppies are simply asleep, or full, or seven weeks old and not in the mood. Some are genuinely wary, and a wary puppy needs a properly structured socialisation plan rather than a hopeful one. Neither extreme is disqualifying. Both are information about what the next four months will ask of you.
What I'd actually pick, given a free choice, is the middle. The puppy who comes over, has a look at you, wanders off, and comes back. Interested, recovers quickly, not fixated. That recovery is the thing worth watching.
What you can and cannot tell at seven weeks
At seven weeks you can reliably read energy level, recovery speed and sound sensitivity, and you cannot reliably read adult temperament, trainability or how a dog will be with children.
| Reasonably readable at 7 weeks | Not readable at 7 weeks |
|---|---|
| Baseline energy relative to the litter | Adult confidence |
| How fast they recover from a startle | Whether they'll be reactive at two |
| Tolerance of being handled and held | Recall reliability |
| Interest in people versus littermates | How they'll be with your kids |
| Obvious physical health signals | Separation tolerance |
Recovery is worth defining, because it's the one people miss. Drop a set of keys behind the litter. Every puppy startles, and that's normal and healthy. What matters is what happens in the next fifteen seconds: does the puppy shake it off and go back to what they were doing, or are they still worried a minute later? Fast recovery at seven weeks is about the most useful single signal you'll get on the day, and it's still not a guarantee.
Breed sits underneath all of it. Breed doesn't decide whether a dog will work in your home, it decides what that dog will cost you in time and effort and where that effort has to go. A Kelpie in a terrace isn't a mistake, it's a bigger bill. If you're still at the breed stage there's a fuller piece on choosing the right breed for your life, and an honest one on whether your lifestyle is ready for a puppy at all.
One Sydney-specific note, because half the litters here are doodles. A first generation poodle cross is a genetic lottery rather than a standardised breed. An F1 puppy can land anywhere between the two parent breeds, in coat, in size and in temperament, and the breeder genuinely cannot tell you where. So read both parents rather than the cross name. The pure bred Poodle is the exception, they're predictable, which is more than can be said for what gets built out of them.
The four things to watch in a ten-minute visit
In a short visit, watch the mother first, then handling tolerance, then recovery, then how the puppy engages with a person versus the litter, and last the environment they've been raised in.
- The mother. Ask to meet her and watch how she is with you..
- Handling. Pick the puppy up, hold them gently
- Person versus littermates. Crouch a few metres away and see who peels off. A puppy who can disengage from seven siblings to come and investigate a stranger is showing you something useful about how much you'll matter to them later.
- Where they've been living. Kitchen floor, washing machine, telly, people walking past. Puppies raised inside a busy home have already banked a fortnight of habituation you won't have to build from scratch. Puppies raised in a shed haven't, and you'll be starting further back.
None of that takes longer than ten minutes and all of it beats scoring a puppy out of six.
Questions a good breeder will answer without hesitating
A good breeder answers questions about health testing, socialisation and what they've already exposed the litter to without needing to check, and asks you more questions than you ask them.
Worth asking: what health testing have the parents had, and can I see the results. What have the puppies been exposed to so far, specifically, not in general. What's your worming and vaccination schedule and what will be done by pickup. What do you do if this doesn't work out for us. And, quietly the most revealing one, what would make you say no to a buyer.
The tell isn't really the answers. It's whether they interrogate you back. Breeders who care where the puppies land ask about your work hours, your yard, your other dogs and your plans for training. A breeder who's happy to hand over a puppy to anybody with a deposit has told you what you need to know. I'm not going to name or rank Sydney breeders here, and you should be suspicious of anyone who does.
Rescue and rehome: the same question, different evidence
With a rescue or a rehome you lose the litter observation and gain something better, which is a history of how this dog has actually behaved in a real environment.
Ask the foster carer the specific questions rather than the general one. How is he when someone knocks. What does he do when you leave the room. Has he been around children, and what happened. Where does he sleep. A foster who's had a dog for six weeks can tell you more than any assessment of a seven week old ever will.
The thing to be honest with yourself about is what you're equipped for. Taking on a dog with a known fear of men, or a known lead reactivity, is a completely reasonable decision as long as you're taking it deliberately with a plan, rather than discovering it in month two.
What to do in the two weeks before pickup
The two weeks before pickup are worth more to the outcome than which puppy you picked, so spend them setting up rather than second-guessing.
Get the house right first. Decide where the crate goes and where the toilet spot is, and don't move either afterwards. Sort the gates. Work out who in the family is doing the 2am toilet break before it's 2am. The puppy pickup checklist covers the kit end of it.
Then book the training before the puppy is home, because spring is the busiest enrolment stretch of the year and the socialisation window closes at six months whether or not you got a spot. That window is the single largest lever you have, and it's the subject of the piece on the socialisation window that closes at six months.
And if you've already chosen and you're now lying awake wondering whether you picked the wrong one, stop. You almost certainly didn't. What you do between eight and twenty four weeks will outweigh the twenty minutes you spent in that laundry, by a distance. The full programme details set out what that actually looks like.
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Frequently asked questions
Is puppy temperament testing reliable?
Puppy temperament testing is weakly predictive at best, and the popular aptitude tests were never validated to the standard their use implies. A seven week old's score tells you about that puppy on that morning. Early handling and the socialisation window up to six months influence the adult dog far more than litter position does.
Should I pick the puppy that runs to me first?
The puppy that runs to you first is showing you confidence and arousal in that moment, not suitability. That's often the highest-energy puppy in the litter, which is a demanding combination for a first-time handler. Watch for the puppy that investigates, disengages, and comes back, because recovery matters more than boldness.
What if I have already chosen my puppy?
Then get on with the four months that actually decide the outcome. Set the house up before pickup, book puppy school before your puppy is home, and treat the socialisation window to six months as the priority. Choosing well helps. Doing the work between eight and twenty four weeks matters more.
